Monday, March 1, 2010

Monday 1-03-2010

10 Days on and we are basically recovering from his surgery.

After days of listening to Simon asking every nurse when they go on their tea break.."oh, what are you going to eat?" He has advanced from a liquid diet to eating solids. We have quickly learned that the local makes a mean parmigana, which was top of the list of Simons requests after the cardboard meals they have at the hospital.

Simon was on Fentanyl (pain killer) immediately post op with a limit of every 5min intervals, and had been on it for 7 days before having it taken away. They replaced it with a Fentanyl patch, were he is still getting the pain killer, although it is slow release and he has no button to push. He is also taking a number of tablets which is a concoction of pregabalin, panadol, Tramadol, brown ones, and the little yellow ones that help his nerve pain relief.

He has his Physio in the mornings, and still having breathing tests, they are still forcing him to cough, which is them compressing on his stomach with force as he coughs.

He now has big elastic bands to start building up the strength in his arms which he is doing 3 times a day. They are getting things prepared for his move to Shenton Park, like the jacket which will be attached to the halo. We were told that he should be at Shenton Park by Thursday next week.

Brad was able to go to Shenton Park for us and take some photos and get some information. The time table looks like a boot camp, but we are looking forward to it all the same. It is the next part of the process as far as we are concerned, we get there and we get through it, as long as it takes.

He has been told things in the past couple of days that would scare the bravest of men.

Alexandra and Georgia are sad and wanting their Daddy to come home so they can look after him. So we are concerntrating on getting him home as soon as they give us the go ahead.

Thank you for the words of support and thank you to those who have been there already in so many different ways.

17 comments:

  1. Stay strong babe!!!

    Again, we are here if you need!!

    Jeff was over the other day and said how much of a pillar of strength you have been. Steven was also amazed by you.

    See you this Friday xx

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  2. Hey Bourney,

    Its Bowzy. Sorry to hear the news mate but Knelly tells me your in high spirits and your photo tells me your as good looking as ever. Hang in there bud, i'll be checking your progress on the blog and havent stopped thinking about you and Marina. All the best mate.

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  3. Hi mate, Maj here.
    All the best with the recovery and the move to Shenton Park. Hopefully we will be able to deliever you some extra good news with a PTL GF win this weekend.
    Best wishes to you Marina and the girls.
    All the best Ryan, Sasha & Kara.

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  4. Hey Bourney and Marina,

    Mate, can't believe it. I get regular updates from Knelly and Nose and am following this religously.

    Just don't know why, but I guess instead of worrying over that, I know would be looking forward on how to fix it.

    Aunty Terri is now in queensland and still rates you as her favourite and also sends her you all the best.

    Stay strong brother.

    Beers and cheers from Kununurra

    Nicho, Ange and Tylah

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  5. Simon,
    You are amazing!! Even when you are the one down, you are still worrying about the people around you. Seeing you actually lifts my spirit up - you are a very brave and determine man. You are my inspiration!!

    Marina,
    You are one hell of a woman for keeping everything and everyone together. There is no doubt in my mind that you and Simon will achieve everything that you set your minds on.

    Lots of love and kisses from,
    Your blackie cousin Gigi, little squirt nora and of course, Rabs.

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  6. Hey Simon and Marina

    Firstly Marina you are truly an inspirational women, I admire your strength and courage through the hurdle life has thrown you both.

    I have complete faith in a successful recovery for you Simon, I am sure there will be many ups and downs ahead. But with both the amazing attitudes you have both shown and the many friends and family that you have around you, I truly believe this journey that has been set for you will hopefully be a little bit easier in achieving your goal and getting you home to you beautiful girls.

    I am always here to help in anyway I can, just a phone call away.

    Thinking of you
    Kerryn xx

    PS We miss you and your good humour at work, and cannot wait to have you back, sooner rather than later.

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  7. Gday Simon and Marina,
    From all of us here at the Australian Golf Course Superintendents Association (AGCSA) our thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls at this moment. We know the WA supers and turf community will be rallying around and doing their all to help you out, but if there is anything that we as the national body can do then we're only a phone call or email away (or just tell el presidente Devo :-). All the very best for the move to Shenton Park and rehab ahead.

    Cheers
    Brett (ATM editor) and the AGCSA Team (John N, John G, Andrew, Simone, Melissa, Daryl, Phil, Jo and Lyndel

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  8. Hello Simon and Marina

    Just letting you know that through this blog and my regular presentations to members everyone at Cottesloe is being kept up to date with the long fight ahead of you. We are all thinking of you and will offer all the support we can.

    I look forward to meeting with Marina and working out what form of support that can take.

    Just heading off to Ladies Opening day and will give the ladies a further update.

    All the best Murray Williams

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  9. G'day mate - still in awe at you and your wife throughout this chapter thus far.

    Came to see you early on but opted instead to give your wife a cuddle in the hallway! After that, didn't really see any need to come and look at your rough head.

    Always said you being an Essendon man was going to bite you on the arse.....imagine taking a dive like The Velvet Sledgehammer?! Would never have happened if you were a disciple of Woosha's like the rest of us hard men.

    Looking forward to coming in to Shenton Park and hanging out with you buddy. Keep that chin up mate and with the incredible support from your friends and family not to mention those magnificent 3 ladies by your side I have no doubt you will pull through this.

    Our thoughts are with you always.

    Hinks, Amy and Tribe

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  10. Marina I'm pleased to see that you've written on here which means you're alright, and the meals that Hayley & I prepared for you didn't harm you in any way hehe :)

    Love, Holly
    x

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  11. Hi Simon & Marina, iv'e just heard from Keiran what's been going on. Rat, be strong mate, you've got a pretty determined lady by your side, your both extremely positive people and i'm sure this puts you both in good stead for the battle ahead. we are thinking of you and the girls,
    best wishes Tom & Nic

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  12. Hey Bourney,

    Wishing you and your family all the best in your recovery.
    Stay strong mate.

    Wado

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  13. Morning mate- Glad to read all is moving forward mate. Lovely cool weather outside atlast for us turfies. Good to hear you are in high spirits about your next move to Shenton Park and will catch up with you soon once you have settled in. Blown away by the support of all your friends and the work Marina is doing. Keep smiling mate.
    Brad Sofield

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  14. Gday Bourny,

    Sorry to hear the news mate - hit us all down the club real hard... Miss you at VIKINGS toilet block with doig in one hand and JD in the other!!

    Amazed at your progress and high spirits mate and look forward to reading all about your recovery and hope to see you back at the club.

    PS uncle Garrys worried about the greens at Cott so you better hurry up and get back there!!

    Thinkn of you and family,

    BD

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  15. Simon, Marina and girls
    Sending you lots of love and wishing you all the best for your recovery.
    Kylie and Dino xx

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  16. Hi Simon,Marina and girls. Thinking of you daily. Keep positive,and all the very best for your recovery Simon. I do hope this gets there, as I'm not very good with computors! Love to you all from Oakey and Mary (Your mum and dads old cronies from Glos. England)

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