Wednesday, February 24, 2010

My man

As you are aware Simon is currently in Royal Perth Hospital, the doctors are monitoring him to ensure he is as comfortable as can be.

He has shattered his C7 and T1 vertabrae and has had two surgerys to reposition his vertabrae with screws, bolts etc as best as they can to try and give the spinal cord a steady environment for rehab.

His spinal cord has been badly damaged. It has been stretched and dislocated and he has no feeling from his chest down.

They are working on his breathing exercises and some arm exercises for him to strenghten his muscles for the next step, rehab for mobility.

The doctors are predicting Simon will move to Shenton Park mid next week to commence his 6 month minimum rehabilitiation. We are still dealing with all the facts and as it is still early stages Simon has requested NO VISITORS AT THE MOMENT. He has alot of pain killers pumping through his system at the moment and sleeping/snoring his way through the days.

The amount of phone calls, emails, texts and visits has been amazing to say the very least. There are so many people to thank for getting "behind the scenes" and organising every facet of our lives to ensure our attention is primarily on Simon's care.

We are all overwhelmed at your support and well wishes, and many of you are trying to come to terms with this tragic accident, as are we. You always know someone that this happens to, but never in our wildest nightmares did we think it would hit our family.

Simon certainly has his wits about him and is 'utilising' the nurse role I have taken on...

66 comments:

  1. Hi Simon, Marina and the girls,
    Sending you all the best wishes, What an unimaginable tragedy.
    Stay strong you 4!
    Bourney, good luck brother!!
    All the best
    Heapy

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  2. Hi Guys

    Thinking of you guys daily! Wishing you all the very best... Keep strong guys!

    Love Alex, Julia and Anthea

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  3. Simon and Marina,

    Can't imagine the pain you guys are going through at the moment

    Wishing you and the family the very best in Simon's recovery. If there is anything we can do don't hesitate to call.
    Our family's thoughts are with all of you.

    Best Wishes
    The Lynch's

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  4. Simon and Marina,

    Thinking of you daily, all our well wishes to you Bourney. Stay strong. All our love The Malackey Family xxx

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  5. Simon & Marina

    We were as shocked as anyone to hear about this and can't possibly imagine what you, your beautiful girls and your families are all going through right now.

    It has certainly given us both a new appreciation for life and a realisation of just how quickly things can change.

    If there is anything we can do for you, anything at all, please don't hesitate to let us know.

    Thinking of you all :)

    Lots of love,
    Holly & Brad
    xx

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  6. Dear Simon & Marina,
    We are so sorry that this has happened but we have all the faith in Simon that he will recover this.
    Thoughts and prayers are with you always
    Love Rachel,Angelo & Lexi Margaritis

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  7. Simon,Marina and Family

    we are thinking of you all,
    all the best for your recovery Bourney
    Stay strong!!

    Brooke & Jason and Mike(Dobbo)

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  8. To our brave brother in law Simon and sister Marina

    We are just devestated by Simons accident.

    Marina you should be so proud getting your family back to Australia from Bali in 10 hours with your husband injured and your little girls in tow.

    Simon you are truly amazing! Everytime we think of what you have endured and what you need to achieve to walk again, we ask how and why but then we see you and speak to you and our questions are answered, both your positive attitude and determination is what is actually getting us through this.

    We love you both and will move heaven and earth to help you.

    Love Vicky, Peter, Stratos and Alexi

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  9. Simon and Marina

    My prayers and thoughts are with you all, I cannot imagine what it is like, but I do know you are both amazing people and with your strong spirits, miracles will happen.

    If I can help in anyway, please do not hesitate to call.
    PS Simon, if you get bored, there is plenty of invoices to authorise.. From Kerryn (Grumpy) xx

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  10. Simon and Marina

    All of us here at the Club are devastated and we think of you daily. Simon you know how special you are to us all.

    My prayers and thoughts are with you.

    Please let me know if there is anything I can do.

    Love to you all

    Jas x

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  11. Simon,Marina & Girls,

    You have been in our thoughts since hearing of this tragedy.
    Keep up the fighting spirit.
    Our best wishes and love are always with you.
    Yell out if you need anything.

    Love Steve,Ange & Girls Samakovidis.

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  12. Simon and Marina,

    Cant begin to think what you and your families are going through right now.

    Our thouhgts are with you and your familes on your recovery.

    Bourney keep your chin up mate and that VIKING SPIRIT will guide you all the way on your recovery.

    All the best

    David(wog),Jackie, Bree and Ashlyn

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  13. Simon & Marina,

    I have been inundated with calls, emails and texts from Vikings asking how you are doing and wanting to know how they can help. Everyone sends their support to you guys!

    My families love,thoughts & support are with you, Ali and Georgia.

    Nails, Cherie, Austyn, Lily & Cayle

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  14. Simon & Marina

    My thoughts are with you and your families on this tragic happening.

    Bourney keep up your fighting spirit.

    Mrs Nicho (Nathans mum)

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  15. I was upset to hear this news mate. My thoughts are with you and your family. Stay strong mate, good luck with your progress. If there is something I can do feel free to ask.
    Slapper.

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  16. TO cuzins marina and simon,

    Can't imagine the pain you guys are going through but thinking fo yous and im hoping for the best!

    Be strong, have faith and know that your loved ones are all around you.

    Love Olivia xxx

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  17. Simon and Marina

    It was hard to hear the news of what happened and can only imagine what you and the girls are going through. Our thoughts are constantly with you guys. Love Ya's

    Jay

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  18. Hey Simon and Marina
    Mmm where to start, still cant belive this has happened, it felt like only yesterday we were having a drink with you guys at THAT villa.
    You have been in our thoughts every day since we heard the news.
    Marina you are a strong woman, so keep ur head high and thoughts positive, and more imprortantly Simon wishing you the best and speediest recovery possible!
    Lots of Love Mark, Renee & Talon xxx

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  19. hey guys,
    so sooo sorry to hear that this has happened and your right you always hear it happening to someone else but never expect it to happen in your own family. you are a strong fighting family and we all know even though the road ahead will be tough you guys can face it head on and make a speedy recovery. Simon stay strong and "fight fight fight" love andrea and kylah xxx

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  20. Simon and Marina,

    Terrible news to hear. We can only imagine what you are going through.

    We hope that your own well-known strength, and the love and support from family and friends, can provide comfort in a difficult time.

    Keep us all posted with your progress.

    Charlie and Cass

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  21. Simon and Marina
    My thouhgts are with you guys and your familes.
    Stay strong buddy and keep positive.
    All the best.
    Saji x

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  22. Bourney and Marina,

    Stay strong man and your hardness and spirit and love from those around you and all your mates will get you through this.

    Best wishes now and through this testing time mate.

    Goughy & all the family

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  23. dear marina and simon,

    my constant thoughts and well wishes for you and your girls.

    "Hope, like the gleaming taper's light,
    Adorns and cheers our way;
    And still, as darker grows the night,
    Emits a brighter ray. "

    dave kevan

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  24. marina,simon,and girls;
    we are thinking of you. if there is anything we can do to help please don't hesitate to ask.
    love hunter, nic, jaxon, and sophie xxxx

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  25. Simon & the Bourne clan,

    Totally rocked by the news.

    Simon, its been many moons since we've spoken, but you're always in my thoughts.

    If anyone can pull through this its you matey.

    Mum (Kaye N) sends her love too.

    Much love & bundles of healing thoughts are being sent your way,
    Marnz (N) & Jason Dalziell

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  26. Hey Rat
    Julie and I are thinking of you mate. You know we will do anything to help you through this...just ask. I have never prayed in my life but I will for you.
    Stay Strong
    Devo

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  27. Simon and Marina,

    Thinking of you and the family Bourney.
    Stay strong mate.

    Rusty.

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  28. Rat,

    All the boys throughout the association are thinking of you mate and are there for you whenever and however, I'm sure you will be back on board and doing what you do best before long so keep strong and get better. Our thoughts are with you buddy.
    Darren and the committee.

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  29. Simon Marina and Family, Thinking of you all at this hard time. our thoughts and prays are with you. Keep Strong.

    Dearne and Smiley Edwards
    Mr and Mrs Maiolo (Wogs Family)

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  30. Simon, Marina & girlies,
    We are thinking of you all at this tough time, all of you keep strong and keep positive as we all are. We send our love and wish we were closer to help. Big hugs, Craig, Zoe, Regan & Taine xxxx

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  31. Simon,Marina and Girls
    My thouhgts are with you guys and your familes.
    Stay strong Mate and keep positive.
    All the best.

    Tucker

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  32. Hey Rat,

    All our thoughts and prayers are with you. You have heaps here that are ready to help and support in whatever way you need. Stay strong. You'll be back better than ever... you know you will. Jeff Lane

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  33. Simon

    Thinking of you mate, family and friends is the bond that will get you through.

    John Forrest

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  34. Simon & Marina my thoughts are with you both during this tough time. It is still hard to believe what has happended.
    Let me know if I can help out at all.
    Lyn Knell

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  35. Simon, Marina, Georgia & Alexandra,
    Our thoughts are with all of you everyday, keep strong and positive as we know you will.
    We are here if you need us.
    James and Michelle Cunningham and family xx

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  36. Bourney

    To say i was blown away about the news is an understatement!I still cant believe it, My thoughts are with you Marina the kids and families,stay positive and keep strong just like the "BOMBERS" spirit there is a heap of fight and determination in you mate thats for sure.
    Take care and all the best

    Craig Sparrowhawk "SPARROW"

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  37. Simon & Marina

    My thoughts are with you both and your families!
    Stay strong and fight hard!

    Nat Bromilow xxx

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  38. Hey Rat , On behalf of Dave your old workmate (away on holidays )and all the crew at Greenline , our thoughts and best wishes go out to you and your family and we hope for a full and speedy recovery.
    A very popular "turfy" indeed and all your mates are with you. Cheers.....Nick Clayton

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  39. Simon, Marina and family,

    Thinking of you all during this tough time. Stay strong mate - you can get through this!

    Ryan, Emma, Jaz and Baylee.

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  40. Hi Rat, Thinking of you everyday mate. Keep strong and you know that anything you need and where i can help i will.
    for your info the nursery is going ahead today with help also from Crossy so dont worry about your course as it is in great hands with the team you have trained.

    Chris Williams

    PS: dont worry but our first hole we dug this morning unearthed a pipe we didnt know was there but all is good now Pheww 40 deg day an all.

    Take care buddy

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  41. We had a toast to you last nite at CGC - all thinking of you mate and your family - jungle and team at CGC

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  42. Keep strong bourney,a long road with many twists and turns ahead, friends will be with you every twist. looking forward to a beer when you come back down to VIKING PARK.

    Mocha and family

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  43. Rat mate- personally and on behalf of the shed at Gossie's our thoughts and prayers are with you, the girls and Marina. Anything we can do will be done and I look forward to seeing you soon mate.
    best wishes
    Brad

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  44. Rat, i am still shocked as what has happened mate. i dont know what to say. our thoughts are with you, marina and your kids. be strong, be tonka tuff mate.
    tyson and shareen

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  45. Simon Marina and girls

    Thinking of you all every day at this very difficult time! Take comfort (if possible) that you are in the best care at RPH and Shenton Park. They made miracles happen for us and we are praying for that same miracle for you!!
    Bourney...stay strong mate and keep your chin up! Marina if there is anything you need just call. You have a tight knit family and you WILL recover from this together.
    Nathan Mel Hudson Fletcher and Laylah Sanders

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  46. Hey bud.Did come 2 c u this week and would luv 2 tell every one else that your fighting spirit is alive and well. From my family thru to North Beach clan we wish u all the best.
    Pratty.
    By the way chopped it again tonight. X

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  47. Stay strong Bourney. Lots of people thinking of you every day and willing to help out any way we can. I'm not surprised to hear you are still being so positive even at this difficult time. Wishing you all the best for whatever lies ahead.
    Rowdy

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  48. Hey Bourney, Marina and girls,

    Stay strong mate and be assured your friends are always here for you.

    Thinking of you.

    Rod and Byn

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  49. To all who have been in touch with Simon both through the blog and other ways , we would like to thank you all as it means so much to him to know that his friends are thinking of him. Simon and Marina have been amazing throughout this first week and are so positive and determined with only forward thoughts.He continues to amaze us with his attitude to this crisis. Please continue to support and encourage him throughout the next months which will be very hard at times.
    Thank you all.
    Tony and Pauline Bourne

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  50. Thinking of you all. Jeff and I are raising a glass now to speed your recovery. Love "Jiff"" and Catherine X

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  51. To Simon and Marina and our beautiful girls

    Simon you have the wonderful support of your beautiful and very strong wife who will never give up! You have the support of your family and extended family who are praying for you daily. I know with a positive attitude and strong conviction you will get there. It may take some time but you will get there.
    All our love Nick and Loula

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  52. bourney,
    thinking of you mate, im sure your fighting spirit will shine through and i wish you the best for the near future.
    Sharpey.

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  53. Dear Simon & Marina
    We are thinking of you, we can't believe this has happened. Marina is a star and together with all the support in Oz and from afar you will get there Simon.
    All our love
    David & Caroline

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  54. Hi Sime,

    Kiwi and I both send all of our love to you, Marina and your beautiful girls. Hoping your recovery goes as smoothly and fast as possible.
    Stay strong and don't give the nurses too much shit.

    Lots of love
    Nicole and Kiwi Edmonds

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  55. gday rat,
    sorry to hear the news mate.
    hope everything works out ok for you and your family.
    craig (bardwell) rice

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  56. Hi Simon & Marina,
    So sorry to hear about your accident. Hope you are recovering from your op. You have great support from your family and friends and everyone is thinking about you and sending positive thoughts your way.
    Love from Jane & Martin

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  57. Dear Simon & Marina
    You are continually in our thoughts and we are praying for your full recovery (and so is everyone at St George's Church Dunsborough). Lots of love to you both and all the family.
    Richard & Christine

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  58. To Simon, Marina, immediate and extended family (in particular Parrot),

    We are terribly sorry to hear about Simons accident.
    We love you all, and are here when ever you need us, for what ever reason.
    Our prayers are with you every day!!

    See you at the game this Friday.
    Stay strong and dont hestitate to ask for any help.

    Sarah Pritchard and Steven Dodd

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  59. Hey Simon,

    Sending you all our love and positive energy!!
    Keep fighting as i know you will! and with Marina by your side i really dont think you have a choice!!

    oh and can i just say that i am so glad that kelly and troy leave sammie at our house when they come to visit you.. do you know how loud that baby screams.. and i mean it's not a little scream it's a continuous loud cry! ... she's definitely inherited Kelly's lungs!!!! lol
    i love the little button but geez she is loud!

    now that you're going to have some extra time on your hands and i'm sure you'll be watching all the footy games... you may want to consider joining a winning side eg. The Eagles!! i have it on authority by good sources that the Bombers really aint gona go that far this year.. sorry i hate to be the bearer of bad news but you're supporting a losing side and really should consider switching over to the royal blue and yellow :) just a thought for you to ponder!!

    but in all seriousness we wish you a speedy recovery.. keep positive, i know it's easier said than done but i know this will pull out your inner fighting spirit and you and marina will get through this..
    plus if ever in doubt just look at the faces of your 2 little angels and they will pull you through this!

    Love Jade and Dan xxx

    p.s. Eagles v Brisbane 27March.. watch it :)

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  60. All the best for a strong and full recovery, our thoughts are with you and your family from the boys at the shed at Hillview G.C.

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  61. Hi Rat,
    wishing you all the best during your recovery.

    Marina, if you need anything please just phone.

    Thinking of you all.

    Best regards, Chook and the SportFM Team.

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  62. sending you all lots of love and our thoughts are with you all.

    lots of love
    Lil, George, Emma, Vass, Maria and Digger (Tim)
    Port Hedland

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  63. Simon,Marina,Girls & all your Family,
    We couldn't believe it when Rod rang us in NZ to tell us of your tragic accident, it just doesn't seem fair that it should happen to someone like you.
    Our thoughts are with you all and we hope you have a full and speedy recovery.
    Kindest Regards
    Kevin and Sheryl Ball

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  64. Geeeeeze Rat....that is huge progress!!!

    Keep it going mate, our thoughts are with you all.

    Remember, call us if you need us.

    Chook & The Golf Show, 91.3SportFM

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  65. I never go to my doctor anymore asking for pain killers prescription and then be turned down at the end, all I do is order online from www.medsheaven.com hassle free and low cost, they have three pain killers listed on their website which are ultram tramadol celebrex that you buy, and the best part is no prescription required!!!

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  66. Hey Guys,
    We had a presentation from the founder of the "Step Ahead Foundation". See Stepahead.org.au

    Sounds promising:-
    They state :-
    “Our sole focus is to support an international effort to find a cure for chronic spinal cord injury (cSCI).”
    The Department of Health and Aging recognises StepAhead as the peak Australian entity involved in the drive to find a cure for cSCI.
    Our function is to:
    raise funds, manage and direct the translation of basic and clinical research to a cure for chronic spinal cord injury; and
    connect the world’s leading researchers and clinicians with patients to apply the latest findings in the march towards a cure for spinal cord injury.

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